Yes, we can all agree that Social Media plays quite a large role of what society considers to be perfect. We sit and scroll through our Facebook and Instagram feeds comparing ourselves to every image we see. "Oh, I'd love to have that body", "Oh imagine I had a house that house". The scary yet most exciting thing is that we can have anything we want. Yes, anything. If we want that house we can work hard to be able to afford it and if we want that body and we make the choices that we know will contribute to a healthier you.
So what's the problem? Problem is are we ever satisfied? Is there always something we want more, is what we are working towards ever enough?
I am no different, I am sucked into the digital world, this selective hub of images and words spoken by people I have never met. I sit and get inspired and convince myself that I'm going to make a change. But how long does that motivation really last? What really turns motivation into habit?
It took me a while to really convince myself that I was capable of changing my body. How does one enjoy food without guilt? How do we really find 'that balance'? Am I going to always have this unhealthy relationship with food? All these questions circulate in my head and I came to the conclusion that what's not perfect is the perception YOU have.
Yes YOU. I too contribute to what society portrays as the ideal body. The one thing I have learnt to do is love my body and with this I keep my social media images as realistic as possible. I recall starting this fitness journey & I was forever desperate trying to find images of what bodybuilders and fitness models looked like prior to their journey or even a realistic day shot but it was all filled with images of past photo shoots. Why? Because they too fear judgement.
So I leave you with this thought...
"The scale can only give you a numerical reflection of your relationship with gravity. It cannot measure beauty, talent, purpose, life force, possibility, strength or love. Don't give the scale more power than it has earned."
-Steve Marabali
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